Girl, Your Choice Determines The Way You Live.

My past few days.

Many people are sharing.

If you really feel it is difficult, then you give up, but if you give up, do not complain; I think life is like this, the world is balanced, everyone is determined by their own efforts to determine their own way of life.

I was very touched when I saw this passage.

In others' mouth, I heard that it was a slogan, but He Jiong was qualified to say this, because he deserved it.

I do not know that because of the end of the year, we all have the pressure to go home for the new year, or feel that a year has passed, but we never gain anything, so it is sad. This seemingly simple inspirational logic has also touched many people.

A few days ago, a former colleague of mine suddenly said to me, "I don't know if you have such a feeling. After finishing this year, I still feel that I am in the liberation."

I asked, what do I say?

I feel that I have worked hard this year, and there is no better change in my life. My income barely makes me live in this city respectfully, and sometimes it is not respectable.

More importantly, I feel that my money can not keep up with inflation, let alone the price of housing.

Every word he said was very specific and true, and it was right, so I could not refute it.

This morning, I opened my circle of friends, and I saw a girl student, S girl, who shared the words before He Jiong. Then she herself commented: I know He Jiong is right. I also know that everyone has to decide their own life through their own efforts. But thousands of words can not be exported, forget it, fuck you life.

I understand what she wants to say. After graduation, she works in her hometown, and brings tea to her leaders every day, occasionally making notes.

She has boys who she likes, but the boy is there.

Work.

Last year's national day, I received the news of the boy's marriage. The girl who married him is another person. I just saw it in my circle of friends, lovely and beautiful, smiling very sweetly.

Forget it, girls also work in Shanghai.

I first went to see this S girl's circle of friends to see if she would be stimulated.

Sure enough, she made a saying that if I had chosen to take a risk once, would life be different?

I know there are thousands of regrets in her heart. There are thousands of entanglements that I can't understand clearly, and I still feel very uncomfortable.

S girl likes this boy for many years and never shows that he doesn't break it.

Just after graduation, boys went to study in England, and then returned to work in Shanghai. The same as renting a crowded subway, the difference was that the girl was his fiancee and accompanied her so hard.

I don't dare to say that if S girls first declared, then they would be in love with boys, and the love process would be smooth without any storm. After graduation, they would be separated from each other, and then insisted on waiting for confluence and decided to go to the same city. Every step of it was indispensable.

Let's not talk about love. For all life choices, even at the very beginning, we will decide where we are going.

On an interview with Zhao Wei, she said that she had been admitted to a good normal school in her junior high school that year, and her parents said she could reward her. So she asked for a trip to Beijing.

So in that year, Zhao Wei, a teenager, went out for the first time, took the train to the Beijing Railway Station, and then her cousin came to pick her up.

Because my cousin lived far away in Fangshan, the adults didn't have time to play with her. She had never been to the real downtown of Beijing or other scenic spots.

But this is the case. Zhao Wei said she was enjoying her freedom for the first time in her life. She was very happy and decided to take a look at the world outside.

When he got home, Zhao Wei chose to enter Xie Jin's Academy of film and Television Arts and then went to Shanghai.

Then she was admitted to Beijing Film Academy, and had the chance to usher in the TV drama "Huan Zhu Ge Ge".

Zhao Wei said that on the day when she left for Shanghai, her parents cried all the way.

First, because she gave up such a good opportunity at home's normal school, she could become a teacher after graduation. At that time, it was really a good job. Two, parents were worried that their children would be small, and they would not know what the next day would be like when they went out for the first time.

I think of the year when I was in college. My parents sent me to school in Wuhan. I was glad that I could live in a big city. I didn't realize their worries and complex feelings at that time.

But I am very grateful that they have not obstructed or interfered too much. Although they are reluctant to part, they will always welcome tomorrow. Even when they left school and separated from me, I could not recall taking photos with them. This is my regret all the time.

There was a girl in my message saying to me that I used to be a big fat person, and then I gradually lost weight and began to look good. But I don't know why. My heart is still very self abased. I feel that I am not worthy of getting many things.

I recall that once Kangxi came, I made a topic of weight loss, and those beautiful men and women who had lost weight after they had one characteristic: they were still very low spoken, slow in movements, and still very concerned about others' gaze.

Xiao Si asked, you guys are so handsome and beautiful, but why are you still so good tempered? By the way, you are now a lot of people chasing people, should be very proud of it?

Or Kevin Tsai poked the truth, he said that these people were very self abased in the days when they were obese. This inferiority penetrated into their bones. What they wore or what they did were very concerned about others' eyes and evaluation.

They are still living in the past themselves, so they need a very long time to adapt slowly, and then become truly confident.

I recommend this program to a girl friend. The original purpose is to encourage her. You see people are so determined and willing to be beautiful that we really want to learn from others.

But I didn't expect the girl friend to reply to me. Now that the weight loss is becoming better or worse, what is the significance of this effort? It is better to ignore the problem.

What is the significance of hard work?

I remember a time when I went to Beijing publishing house to sign my new book.

She is as big as me, but her life experience is much better than mine.

Ching Yue said that she wanted to test the TV station of her hometown when she was graduating, but failed to think of it. So she went to CCTV and became a foreign correspondent of CCTV.

So she was a small girl who had been working in Latin America for three years, and had gone through many wonderful stories.

One day, Qing Yue wrote an article. It was called "too strong and tired, but actually not strong and tired." she said such a strong point means that you have a priority in a team. You can walk as many effective paths as you can in your life, and those who do not seem tired at the moment are the most important part of your life. The most important part is the right to choose.

Well, the reason why we are willing to work hard is to have some choice, not just fuck you life.

The reason why we lose weight, become better and better, we are willing to take some of our abilities to exchange salaries for resources, and are willing to cherish an interesting friend...

Life is a risky business, but some people go boldly. Some people are afraid to walk a little bit because they are afraid of walking. Some of them just feel that the river is too dangerous for a few days. I still go back to the cave. It is safe and comfortable, and there will be no accidents.

I saw the movie "Shan River old man" very depressed the other day, I know that Jia Zhangke's tonality has always been so. When you enter the plot again, you will still be moved by the vicissitudes of the story.

I said on micro-blog that when I saw the movie, I felt very complex and depressed.

A boy threw me a long long sentence. He said, sister darling, look, this is a passage from Jia Zhangke's article.

Because of the words, I used it directly.

"When I was older, I suddenly discovered that it was more difficult to give up the ideal than to stick to the ideal.

At that time, those who had interrupted their studies had reasons, for example, when their father died suddenly, they needed a man to work at home, and they could not afford to spend their money at home.

Everyone has a very specific reason. They all have to bear a responsibility in life, and give up their ideals to others' responsibilities.

"Under such circumstances, those who insist on our ideals actually pay much less than them, because they have undertaken a very ordinary life day after day.

They know what the result of abandoning the ideal is, but they give up.

There is no difference between today and tomorrow in the life of a county. There is no difference between a year ago and a year later. "

"Why do I say this movie is very sad? Maybe life is no longer a miracle for them to come to this place. There will be no possibility. The rest is a mediocre life in the struggle against time."

That night I read these words again and again, from the beginning of restlessness, and then gradually calm down.

I think I have always wanted to run away from my hometown, but I am afraid that I can not make a living in Shenzhen. I am not qualified to say that I choose this path.

I was afraid of letting my parents down and letting my family down. I was even more afraid of letting those children who were modeled after me in the old home feel disappointed. This feeling comes out every once in a while, eating my wobble mood, and then sleepless nights.

It was also this night that I felt that the reason I was looking for finally came out for me. Maybe we were not trying to be successful or returning home.

We fight against this mediocre life and fight against the less and less life. As Wang Han said, the richness of life will help you to lighten your worries about life.

I have always remembered that Luo Yonghao once summed up a sentence for his idealistic Entrepreneurship: "it is possible to make people believe in clean money by making clean money. It is possible to make people believe in realizing their ideals by realizing their ideals. It is possible to change the world by changing the world, even in China."

Whether Luo Yonghao's mobile phone business will succeed, but sincerely hope that he can succeed, because then the world will become more interesting, is not it?